You know those thoughts.
What if people don't like my stuff? I'm trying to develop a thick skin so I won't take situations like this so personal. But when everything I make feels like a little piece of me it's not easy.
Same goes with my writing. But I'm working on that.
I'm hoping this vulnerable feeling will slip away over time. Probably with more experience. Right?
For now, I'll suck it up and get my pieces out there. When it comes time to query, I'll do the same.
Stop on over to Alex J. Cavanaugh's BLOG to connect with other participating writers.
Are you feeling insecure or vulnerable at the moment? How do you push through it?
Creative Wishes,
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Every time I send out a new chapter to my CPs I get all antsy. I love it to much and it represents such a large part of who I am that their criticisms make me nervous. (Luckily, I have awesome CPs who help me make the best of my work without making me want to bash my head in ...)
You've definitely struck on something that every creative person feels. I, too, make jewelry. I do micromacrame with lots of beads. It is very theraputic for me. If I'm stuck writing, I can go work on a piece and let things stew in my brain for awhile.
I hope your Open House goes well on Saturday. Just remember all art is subjective, and someone won't like it, but lots of people will (whether it's jewelry or writing). Good luck!
That feeling goes with anything artistic. You're selling your pieces? Hope you sell them all!
I think is this way I contribute so much of my writing to the external cosmic forces. If people don't like what I write, I'll take their feedback into consideration, sure, but it's like displacing some of the load onto the universe. Weird thought, I know. I'll have to blog about. :)
You're getting pieces out there. It takes a lot of courage and you're on your way! :)
I've seen pics of your gorgeous jewellry and if I could I'd fly over and buy me some! Yay!!
I think cross that bridge when you get to querying stage! Just get that novel all ship shape and shiny and super duper ready!!! The vulnerability will never disappear - the courage to face it and get over it and move on however strengthens with character and determination! And you've got that within you, yes you do!
Take care
x
Good luck with your open house. I have not started the dreaded query process yet, but when I do I feel certain I will experience this.
Accepting our vulnerabilities is hard..but it's part of the journey....Your jewelry and writing are wonderful...believe and it will happen for you! Love your necklace posted on January 16...Your open house will be a success!
Lisa
I know you've been to my blog already today, so you know how I feel. Relax! You're jewelry looked beautiful and they're going to LOVE it! :)
Things will work out in the end. Although it's easier said than done,don't worry until you have to. Just try to enjoy the creative journey. Good luck.
I make jewelry, too, and you should be very confident about your stuff--it's beautiful! But I hear you--I think for any artist, a little piece of their soul goes into every creation. You hope that whoever experiences your art gains something and maybe sees a little bit of you as well.
Jamie, wishing you a beautiful open house on Saturday. I love that you wrote about "those thoughts". I think they come with the territory. Being an artist must surely include learning to navigate around them sometimes and lead ourselves closer and closer to self-love.
Thanks for being such a constant source of support. It means a lot!
Does it go away? I'm wondering if it ever does. But it keeps us humble, right?
So proud of you for taking these steps. Try to just have fun!
Catherine Denton
The more you send it out, the easier it gets. I promise you that.
Oh, my Sweet - your words and jewelry are fabulous and I am proud for you - making the steps to put yourself out there is very scary but it will so be worth it!! xoxox
I hate when I feel insecure with my writing, but it's always there. I get together with my writing buddies and they always make me feel better. ;)
It is 6:13 AM - vulnerable, no. Cold, hungry, and dreading putting laundry away, yes.
A thick skin is so important for creative people, but so hard to muster. You are beautiful and your work is an extension of that beauty. Only the people who celebrate that count!
I hope it all went well!
Insecure? For sure. All the time. How do I push through? Just keep going, ignore the negative vibes (but pay attention to constructive criticism).
I hope it went well for you! I think it gets easier with time. Of course there is always a part of you that will wonder but it stays in the back of your mind instead of the forefront. Be strong. Be encouraged. Your beauty will always shine through and because of that people will be drawn to your work.
Peace and love,
toni
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